I love running. I wake up and I want to run. After long runs, I can’t wait until my next run. Last year, because I had a goal marathon time in mind, I followed a rigorous training pattern instead of my usual strategy of just saying yes to every social running plan. I cut down my alcohol consumption and spent far too many hours looking at my splits.

And then the unthinkable happened – I burned out on running.

I started dreading going outside in the morning, not completing my workouts. I used to return home flooded with endorphins; instead I would be so mentally drained from my runs that I wanted to do little else.

Puzzled, I perused my training log and compared training weeks that I felt burned out versus non-burned out weeks.

(Two similar-looking training weeks, but felt like garbage during the bottom one.)

(Two similar-looking training weeks, but felt like garbage during the bottom one.)

The mileage and intensity were pretty comparable, so I looked at timing with my period, what was going on at work, trail versus road. Nothing stood out.

But when I grayed out solo activities and looked at the ratio to group activities, the answer became crystal clear. Turns out I could exercise with equal intensity but by simply running with friends, I could make the same thing more enjoyable.

(Same training weeks as above, but graying out solo activities.)

(Same training weeks as above, but graying out solo activities.)

At work, we often trap ourselves in a state of burnout. We think that suffering is admirable. We may not love every minute of what we do at work, but making it enjoyable is not impossible. As a manager, this is always my first endeavor when leading a new team. Since humans are social creatures, the easiest way is to foster interpersonal relationships and start having fun together. For me, loving the people I work with is the most effective way to stave off burnout.

I didn’t end up running my goal marathon time last year. But I learned my lesson and joined a running club this year so I have plenty of new friends to long run with.